when you are married it is not always all sunshine and rainbows. and i can tell you that my husband would agree like 200%. trying to manage bills, payments, work, chores, blah blah blah, and still manage to be a pleasant husband or wife at the end of the day. it takes some major work.
a lot of young couples recently engaged or entering marriage sometimes have a false sense of what marriage is. and i was included in that group. i was quite naive. the fact is that in order to have a great marriage you have to fight for it. life has it's way of weighing us down. and you have to push through all those things and at the end of the day you have to chose to love your spouse and chose to continue to make your marriage great. nobody is perfect. and i can be the first to tell you i am soooo far from perfect. i have been through a lot--- been hurt and am currently in the process of healing. i am not the most pleasant person to be around probably like 95% of the time. haha. but, because of that i have to work harder than i ever have before because of that choice to make my marriage the very best it can be. and for me, my choice is easy to love my adoring husband, but i bet his choice is harder. but he does anyway, despite...well, despite me. it has been almost two years and we have been through a lot... and if life proves me right, there will be more trials and more joys along the way.
i am so in love with nathan. he truly has been wonderful to me and i am thankful that he is my best friend and husband. i am thankful for the trials and the joys. i am thankful God has helped us along the way and has made our marriage wonderful.
hope you all have a wonderful night!
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yay for that. i love you both. :)
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